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The Quest For Happiness.

“HAPPINESS” means ‘Khushi’ jo aaj logo ko dhundne se bhi nahi milti Khushi ki talaash mai aaj hum aur aap kisi bhi extreme tak jaane ke liye taiyaar hai, to find our own hapiness we have to work hard ‘aakhir kya? aur Kaha milti hai ye Khushi? aaj hum mai se kitne apni life mai completely khush hai ya apne life se fully satisfied hai. ya yeh, dogle samaaj, Aur Kuch negative logo ki wajah se khush rehna hi bhool gaayae hai. aaj jisse Dekho khush rehne ka sirf dikhaava kar Raha hai. aapko social media par toh bahut saare haste,muskurahate chehre mil jaayege Magar us jhoothi muskurahat ke peeche kis insaan ne kya aur kitna dard chupaya hai ye koi nahi dekhna chahta?. but in real sab apni khushiyo ko sirf ek airtight container mai ya apne mobile mai bandh karke rakhna chahte hai .everyone wants to copy others ek dusre ko dekhkar bas ek dusre ke jaisa banana chahte hai hum yeh kyu? nahi samazte hai ki khush rehna har kisi ka Janam sidh adhikaar hai. Janam zaroor route huae lete par hum is Duniya se khush hokar aur dusro ko rulaakar jaate hai. why you require others’ validation or approval to be happy. aap apne aap se puchcho ke last time aap kab aur kis baat se khush huae the ya aapko kis baat se aapko khushi milti hai. hum aur aap zarroor soch mai padh jaayege, hum yehi kahege we are so busy yaha khush rehna ka time kis ke pass hai. but why do we always want to be practical why we always to be perfect.

“Dukhi” aur “Naumeed” hone ke liye humare pass lakho wajah hai,par kya? khush rehne ke liye humare pass sirf ek bhi wajah hai? aur agar hai toh woh Ek Choti si wajah kaafhi hai.no one is perfect and no one stays forever but life has to move on!’ Janam Lena, Pyaar Karna, aur mar Jaana yeh hi toh life ka ek truth hai jo we have to except it’ bachpan se hi humaare saare faisle humaare liye humaare maa-baap lete hai par phir bhi hum khush hone ke koi na koi bahaane doondh hi lete hai par ek baar badhe hone par we just try to copy others dusre ki tarah dikhna, dusre ki tarah baat Karna,dusre ki tarah make-up Karna, dusre ki tarah dress up Karna aur bhi bhut kuch…… hum sabka koi na koi ek ideal insaan hota hai jiske tarah hum banna chahte hai.which is good lekin kya hum jaante hai ki aapka woh ideal aapke ideal insaan kis tarah ideal banna us ieal insaan ne kya kya sacrifice aur kitne compremises aur ktna hard work kiya hoga? Yaad rakhe kisis ko ideal maankar uske jaisa banna ya apni apni khudki identity khona dono baato mai bahut difference hai. just only “to be in the alliance”, or to be part of the crowd. jis tarah hum sabke chehre, color aur body’s mai difference hai ussi tarah hum sabki soch aur khush rehne ka tarika bhi alag ho sakte hai. stop for others’ approval, maana aaj is yug mai khush rehna bahut mushkil hai par namumkeen nahi hai. “STOP” being so just judgemental and do not beg anyone to be in your life or to give you the approval just be kind to others and if you have hurt someone just say ‘SORRY’ apna EGO aur SELF RESPECT sab side mai rake, zaroori nahi hai agar aapko kisi ne hurt kiya hai toh aap bhi dusro ko hurt kare revenge le, dusre ko neecha dikhaaye usse kya hoga? aapko sirf thodi der ka sirf satisfaction Milega par Khushi nahi. kyuki? hum mai bachpn se aise hi sikhaya jaata hai ki aapke saath kisi ne bhi bura kiya hai toh tum bhi uske saath waisa hi karo! believe me REVENGE only bring destruction and pain, aur agar humare saath bura huaa hai toh jab tak hum kisi aur ke saath bura kar nahi lete tab tak hum disturb,dukhi aur pareshaan hone lagte hai. humaara dimaag hi issi tarah se bachpan se develop kiya jaata hai. hum kab Duniya ki bannai hui dogli baatai mai kab dhal jaate hai.ye humhe pata hi nahi chalta,hum sab apni zaroorato ke itne Ghulam ho jaate hai ki apni basic zaroorato mai naa simatkar luxury life ke aadhi ho jaate hai ki sirf apni chahat ko hi hum apni Khushi ka Naam dete hai there is lots of difference between ‘CHAHAT’ and ‘KHUSHI’. ‘Chahat’ means desire jisme sirf insaan apne baare mai hi sochta hai, selfish, chahat brings only destruction and Khushi ‘ means smile and happiness Khushi means selfless love.

Bachpan mai toh hum choti si baat se khush rehte hai par bade hone par humari badi si badi khushi par hum khush nahi hote par kyu? aaj hum mai khush rehne ke liye’wajah’ aur ‘bahaane’ chahiye. aaj, jisse Dekho apne aap mai hi busy rehta hai woh aur unka mobile Pehle log itne modern aur itne advanced nahi the toh har ghar se hassi ki thahake sunai dete the aaj log jitne modern aur advanced ho Gaye hai Utne hi akele ho gaayae hai ab hassi sirf laughter clubs mai sunai deti hai. hum apni Khushi ke liye khud zimmedar hai maana achchi lifestyle ke liye paisa kamana bahut zaroori hai par kum paise se ek achchi satisfied life jiye jaa sakti hai. humko aapko pata hota hai ki humari Khushi kissme hai badi, badi cheezo par gaur na karke choti, choti cheezo mai hum apni khushi dudhe aap Pehle apni Khushi dudhe ki aapko khushi kis baat se milti hai.” waise bhi humhe sirf ek hi-life milti jeene ke Liye, har ek cheez humaare plan ke hisaab se nahi hoti toh just live the life to the fullest and happy”. enjoy jaisa aapka har ek pal aakhiri ho waisebhi peecle do saal se jaise life shock derahe hai. waise bhi kya pata? aapka kab, kaun sa pal aapka aakhiri ho. Zindagi koi bharosa nahi hai stop regretting and complaining just do whatever you like aapko jo bhi baat se Khushi milti hai woh zaroor kare apni hobby, apne darr, apni har wish ko pura Karne ki koshish kare isse koi farq nahi padta aapki hobby ya jo aapko pasand ho woh cheez kitni bhi weird ho. jaise mai bahut jyaada dukhi ya upset hoti hu toh I love listening toh old Bollywood song, mai koi bhi Nayee recipe cook karti hu one day I just want to open my own restaurant, i even love writing, I feel peace, mughe chote bachche ko haste khelte dekhna bahut pasand hai, I love sleeping I sleep a lot, nayee jagah par travel Karna with my partner and my child, love talking to my son, aur bahut hi lambhi list hai mere khushiyo ki. aap ki bhi apni pasandi da list hogi dudhiye apni khushiyo ki list banaaye yaad rakhe jab aap khud khush rahege aur smile karege toh sabko khush rakh paayege, phir shaayad aapki”QUEST FOR HAPINESS” puri ho jaaya aur khushiyo ko talaashne ke liye kahi jaana naa padhe woh khud aapko apne andar hi mil jaaye.Waise bhi laughter is the best medicine for yours and others mind, body, and soul.

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