Marriage

      “SHAADI” aurat ke Zindagi ka sabse khubsurat safar h Jaha woh beti se ek Patni, bahu aur maa banti h. mera Aaj ka ye blog isi par h hum mai Shaadi ka Matlab sirf saat vachan,saat Janam, do parivaroaur do aatmayo ka Milan h .par hamare yaha Shaadi ka Matlab h arrange celebration band baaja,naach gaana,khaana peena, celebration aur bahu Kuch…………………….par Shaadi chahe arrange marriage ho ya love marriage.depend on karta h aapki soch par, Pyaar do logo mai hota h.shaadi,biwi pe jokes to aapne bahut sure hoge; par hum mai aise kitne h jo Shaadi ka Matlab jaante h? sab ke apne apne vichaar hoge;hummai se to bahut se logo ka jawaab ye hoga ki ye ek zariya h vansh ko aage badane ka? Aapne Kabhi happily married couple Dekha h.aur ye Socha h.kisi bhi happy couple ko dekhkar ye sochne par majboor kiya hoga ki aisi konsi baate h jo unhe apne rishtey mai itna khush rakti h.aaj ke badalte daur mai. Jaha talaak ke maamle teejhi se badh rahe h.waha agar koi couple apne Shaadi mai lambhe Samay tak khush rahe to bhi log uski Taraf shakh bhari nazaro se dekhte h ki aakhir ye apni Shaadi mai itna khush Kaise h? inki Shaadi mai sab thik h to koi apni Shaadi mai itna khush rehne ka sirf dikhawa Karta h:ek Shaadi ko puri tarah se kaamyaab Banane ke liye dono taraf se bahut Saara Pyaar, compromise,aur sacrifices Karna padta h.hamare saare rishtey Pehle se hi taay hote h .hamare liye sirf ek ye hi Rishta h jisse. hum, ya hamare apne hamare liye tray Karta h.

  isliye isme itni aazmaish h.hamari puri life mai sirf yehi ek Rishta .jisme bahut saare mat bedh aur vicharo ka adal Badal h .aur humhe damage, Samay par is rishtey ko nibhane ke liye Sahi samaj aur Sahi margdarshan ki zarorat hoti h  Magar kya ye Rishta sirf ek hi Taraf se nibhaya jaata h?NAHI! yeh, koshish dono Taraf se ho to Rishta jeene ka alag hi maza h. Par is rishtey mai Maine sirf jyaada kar aurat ko hi sacrifice aur compromises karte Dekha h.husbands ke liye sirf ye Rishta ” give and take ” ka hota h mai ye nahi kehti sabhi husbands give and take ki policy rakhte h .bahut se aise bhi husband h jo apni wife ko sachche dil se chahte h kyu ki hamare aaspas aise kitne couple hoge har ladki ka bachpan se Sapna hota h Shaadi karne ka aur bahut si bachchiyon aisi h jinki Shaadi bachpan mai hi ho jaati h Aaj bhi kai desho mai ladkiyo ki Shaadi bachchpan mai hi kar dete h jinhe Shaadi ka Matlab bhi nahi pata hota hjo chotisi Umar mai hi maansik aur sharirik takleef ka shikaar hoti h chothisi Umar mai hi mmaa ban jaati h aur bahut si bachche ko Janam dete hi is  Duniya se chotisi Umar mai hi chali jaati h. shaadi ke shurawati saal to bahut romantic aur yaadgar hote h par kuch saalo ke baad husbands ki life emi,laptop, mobile aur apne dosto mai busy ho jaate jis khubsurat ladki ko woh dulhan banakar laate h woh hi biwi kuch saalo ke baad aur bachche hone ke baad waqt ke saat uski khubsurati kam hone lagti h to husbands ko unki wife boreing buddi unattractive aur moti lagne lagti h aur woh young ladki ki taraf aakarshit hone lagte h .phir aise mai kya karna chahiye ? aurkuch hus bands to aise mai biwi aur bachche ko chodkar bhi chale jaate h.kya sachche pyaar karne waale kabhi aisa kar sakte h ajeeb hota h ye shaadi ka rishta jis aadmi ki khatir woh apna sab kuch chodkar uske saat aati h uske saat nai duniya basati aur usi duniya ko pyaar se sawaarti h usse kaamyaab banati h . aise mai usse sivaya dhoke kuch nahi milta .lekin sab aise nahi hote aaj bhi kuch aise couple h jo ek dusre se be intehaan pyaar karte h . mere manana ye h ki kisi ko chodne ke liya lakho burai khaaphi h magar kisi ka saath rehne ke liye uski sirf  ek achchai aadat kaphi h. hum mai sirf itna karna h apne partner se expectation  na rakhe  unko samajaane ke liye hum mai hi khud hi  samaajna padega  apni maaried life  ko hum mai hi behter banasakte h . kabhi kabhi jab dusro se umeed rakhte h tab hi hamari life ki problems shuru hoti  h hum apni shaadi ko nayi banaaye rakhne ke liye ek dure se baat  kar sakte  h waise bhi no relation ship is better than afriends.
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