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IT’S TIME TO BE INDEPENDENT

             Mai wohi likhti hu   jo mai dekhti hu, ya jo mai khud apne kaano se sunati hu, ya jo mai mehsus karti hu ya hamari society mai sadiyo se ho raha h jiski taraf kisi ka dhyaan hi nahi jaata aaj bhi hum bahut saare mamlo mai   pichche h ; jisme se ek bahut important maamla h aurato ki tariki  ka mera aaj ka   blog usse hi related h. From being a  daughter, sister, wife and a; mother Hamari kya Sirf yehi pehchaan h? ye baat har ek us middle-class aurat ke Mann ko pareshaan karti h; humhe kya  Sirf hamare papa, husband, aur Bachcoo ki maa ke Naam se hi Jaana jaayega kya?  kya Hamari khud ki kya koi shaksiyat nahi? being an ideal housewife for so many years humhe khud ki identity talaashni hogi. Aaj hum se bahut Saari aurat self-independent h; par bahut sari Aisi bhi h jinhe vo ek mauka bhi nahi Mila.   no matter what it takes to be after, being secured our whole life ye jo aapki life mai men hote h. na aapke father, aapke husband, brothers ye nahi chahte aap independent ho?  ab Aisa nahi h  sabhi families aisi hbahut saari family aisi h jo support karti par bahut saari aisi bhi h Jaha aurato ko Apna point of view rakhne ke bhi ijaazat tak nahi h; kyu ki aap unki life mai itne important hote ho. woh nahi, chahte aap unse puche bagair Kuch kare, unhe  Daar hota h aapko Khone ka ek baar aap independent ho gaaye ki aap apna faisla khud karoge aapki life mai unki ahimiyat Kam ho jaayegi. they can’t handle self-made an independent women. Maine yeh nahi kehti sabhi aise hote h? par haa hote h. but trust me “har ek aurat ko financially independent” hona chahiye koi farq nahi padta aapki kya age h. ya aap kitne educated ho koi farq nahi padta aapke paas degree h. ya nahi h pehle itne source nahi the ,par aaj h jab hum khud  ko  independent kar le ge to hum apne bachche ke liye ek behterrin example set karte  h aapke khudke aatmasamaan aur izzat ke liye ., haa pehle  nahi itni oppurnunity nahi thi;  par aaj bahut saare mauke h hamare paas independent hone ke hamhe nahi khona chahiye aakhir kab tak hum apne fathers, husband ya apne bachche ke mummy ke naam se jaani jaayegi aaj bhi bhut saare orthodox family,aur bahut saare aise narrow minded log h jo auroto ko independent nahi hone dena chahte ; jyaada kar hamare yaha abhi aurato ko taraki  nahi karne diya jaata h pata h i am sounding like a feminist but khud bhi bahut saal tak yahi  sab jhela h ye mai aapko mere life story ke agle kisi part mai bataogi isliye maine socha mere jaisi kitni aurate h jo apne life mai  kuch karna chahti h par hamare backward soch ke kaaran kuch kar nahi paati mai jaanti hu  sab aisi nahin h aaj ki generation ki   jyaada aurato self made aur independent h par uss independent ki liye unhe ne kitni mehnat aur kitne struggle ki hogi  kitni rejection face kiya hoga ye wohi jaan sakti h ;its never late too come back” woh kehte h na jab jaago tabhi savera”;so for your self respect and  setting an good example for our children and coming generation hum mai se har ek aurat ko himmat dikhani hogi aur har ek ko self independent banana padega. and nowadays women are getting stronger than olden days hum apne adhikar ke liye fight kar rahi h Aaj ek beti bete ki jagah le rahi h hum har field mai aagae badh rahi h  par phir bhi humhe peecha khichcha jaata h in many ways h Kabhi family pressure mai  to kabhi gender inequality ke naam par hota h ye baat hui well-educated aurato ki but what about middle-class aurato ki after marriage jo housewife hoti h unhe kyu Aisa diikhaya jaata h woh Kuch nahi karti ab waqt aagaya h even housewife can be financial independent ho Sakti h har ek aurat, mai Kuch, na Kuch hunar aur kabiliyat hoti h. par hum housewife Banane ke baad sab bhul jati h. toh pehchaane aur vichaar kare aapke Andar kya kabiliyat ko. be confident chahe kisi support ho ya naho. ek baar zaroor try kare apne Sapne ke liye apni khudki Khushi ke liye. shuru mai aapko bahut problem hogi Ghar, husband bachche aur waise bhi is lockdown mai to hum limited ration, limited finance ke saat husband aur bachche ki demand puri karahi h na toh kya hum baaki sab cheezo ke saat hum kya financial independent nahi ho Sakti”.it’s never too late for come back”.

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