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I Wish I Could Fly High

                    Is Duniya mai har koi udna chahta h; udna ki baat hi Kuch alag hoti h, har kisi ko apne hisse ka aasmaan Milna hi chahiye. par sabko woh asaman nahi ,milta  h  ha! ye baat aur ki jise khulle aasmaan mai Udana h, na usse kitna bhi bandish mai rakho woh ek din saari bandisho ko thodkar . zaroor udta h. yaha udne se mera matlab azaadi se h, apne sapne, carrier aur mahatvya kansha se h.kyu uddne ka hak aurato ko nahi diya jaata ?kyu har rules aur regulation sirf ussai hi nibhaana h. Aurat ke paida hoti hi uske paankh Katt diye jaate h.  Kyu ussai hi bachpan se hi yeh ehsaas karaya jaata h. tum ladki ho isliye tumhaare liye hi bahut saare rules aur regulation h  jo tumhe follow karne hi padege?Aap kitne bhi kabhil ho kitne bhi hoshiyaar ho phir bhi aapko important nahi di jaati sabhi maa- baap; ya sabhi gharwale aise nahi hote par Aaj bhi ek middle-class gareeb family mai aisa hi hota h.  Aaj bhi ladki ko Sirf bhoj ki Tarah hi samza jaata h. ladkiyo ko bachpan se hi ek achchi housewife banne ki training di jaati h  Ghar sabhaal na, har ek ka aadhar Karna, sabka dhyaan rakhna sabse Pehle dusro ke baare mai sochna; ek perfect housewife, kyu har waqt yeh kehkar ehsaas kiya jaata h. ki tumhe  Shaadi karke dusre ka Ghar Shambhala h. ladki se kehte gussa Kam Karo, Kam bolo, khaana banana sikho, aur bahut Kuch ………… aur Shaadi ke baad surname change, life change saare adjustment, ussai hi Karna; sasurwal mai adjust Karna, husband ka torcher, domestic violence, apna carrier sacrifice, everything usse hi suffer Karna apne maa-baap ya apne Gharwalo se kahe to bhi ussai hi adjustment aur bardassht karne ki sujhaav di jaati h. kyu?  sabhi sasuralwale aur husband aise nahi hote time has changed par haa Aaj bhi aise log hamaare samaj mai h,kisi parasite ki, Tarah bahut saare aise log h. jo ye samajhna hi nahi chahte h. agar khud ki beti ke liye alag niyam aur bahu ke liye alag niyam aisa bhala kyu? kya hamare yaha aise dogle log hamare samaj ko khookla kar rahe h. khudki bahen, beti aur maa ke liye alag niyam aur apni wife jo dusri ki beti h. uskeliye koi niyam shaayad Aaj ke daur mai sabse jyaada talaaq hone. Yeh toh baat hui housewife ki jisse Sirf yehi umeed ki jaati h. woh  ” chup chaap rahe sab sahe; toh aadarsh naari”. aur agar apne hak ki liye baat kare toh ‘badtameez ‘aakhir aise kyu?   aur kyu phir gugi ladki se koi Shaadi nahi Karna chahta hamare yaha ladkiyo ko Ghar sambhalne ki training ke alaava, carrier ki training di jaati, Ghar ka kaam ke liye toh phir bhi maid mil jaati h. par kyu? ladkiyo ko apni self-respect aur self-dependent nahi sikhaya jaata kyu Aaj bhi divorce ko kyu itna bada issue samaj aa jaata h; agar do logo mai nahi banti, kyu Aaj bhi; log ladke ki Sirat nahi; surat dekhte h; kyu uski parvarish ko nahi Ghar ko dekhte h.. office mai female colleagues, female boss se order nahi chahiye kyu? for them aurato ko Kuch nahi aata working ladies ko toh jyaada struggle Karna padta h ya yu kahe unko aage badne hi nahi diya jaata h women are born talented bhale hi aadmi physically strong ho sakte h. but women are mentally and emotionally strong hoti h. Aapne aksar Dekha Hoga har kaamyab aadmi ke peeche aurat ka haath hota h. par kya Kabhi aapne kisi kaamyaab aurat ko yeh kehte Sunah ki uski kaamyaabi ke peechi kisi aadmi ka haath h? nahi na kyu husband, brother, boyfriend insabhi ke liye aap Sirf ek another competition ho agar koi ladki kaamyab hoti bhi toh Sirf apne maa-baap aur bacchhe ki wajah se; woh hi hote jo loggo ki jali kati baate sunte sunkar bhi aap ko aagae badne ke liye support karte h. kyu ki aapke maa baap ke liye aapki achieventment hi unki achievement h .aur apne bachcho ke liye aap ideal h. mughe khud support karne wala mera fourteen years ka beta h.aap Sirf himmat kare; aapko apna aasamaan khud ba khud miljaayega.

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