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Family (parivaar).

         ‘Family‘ Matlab parivaar itni badi Duniya mai aapki khudki Ek Choti si Duniya Ek Aisi Duniya jise hum khud apne haatho se basate h. bahut achcha lagta h ki itni badi Duniya mai humhe Apna ya yu kahe humhe Apna kehne waala koi h. insaan ho; ya jaanwar sabhi ko apne parivaar se bahut  Pyaar hota h.”parivaar Shabd dimaag mai aate hi Sooraj barjaatiya ki film ya koi Ekta Kapoor ke serial ki Yaad aati h .lekin kya? real-life mai joint family ko Shambhala aur joint family mai rehna Itna aasaan h? modernization ke Naam par sabko “freedom chahiye ”  kyu ki Aaj Kal logon ke pass rishtey nibhaane ke liye time hi nahi h ? har Kisi ne is bhaagti, daudtee Zindagi mai apne ya Kisi apne ke liye. waqt hi nahi h.ab insaan Sirf apne hi bare mai sochta h. Par jab parivaar ki baat kare toh,parivaar ko Ek just rakhne ke liye Saari zamindari Sirf  Ek aurat ki hoti h. aur Kabhi jo Ek parivaar totta bhi to iske liye bhi usshi zimmedar tehraaya jaata h.kyu?because “men don’t want to take any responsibility of anything”!all men are not like these there are men’s jo saare responsibilities Ghar,parivaar sabhi ki responsibility bahut achche se nibhaate h.ek makaan ko apne Pyaar Se, apne sayyam se, aur apne sujh-Bhuj, se ek pathar ke makaan ko Ghar banate h. saare rishtey ko ek jaisa important deti h. sabhi ke saath ek jaisa vyavahaar Karna sabhi ki galti, par parda daalna, sabhi ko ek saath lekar chalna,saare rishtey ko ek jaisi important Dena,ek aurat ka hi kaam h agar ek aurat chahe toh paraye parivaar ko bhi Apna Bana Sakti h;aur apno ko bhi para aya Kar Sakti h.
  Ek parivaar shuru to sirf ek rishtey se hi hota h;woh hota toh pati-patni se, aur saare rishtey usshi ek rishtey ke ass-pass hi baante h .woh kehte h na?  “a strong mother, strong sister, strong wife……. can make all the relationship strong” .ek parivaar  ka kya matlab h sirf ek ghar mai rehna? nahi .ek parivaar ka matlab ek dusre ka khayaal rakhna ,aur museebat ke samay ek doosre ka saath dena,aur ek  dusre ki galtiyo ko maaf karna h. jab tak pure  parivaar ki jimmaradaree sirf ek insaan pe hoti h .woh chahe “aurat ho ya mard  ho “. dono uss jimmaradaree  ke neeche  dabne lagte h. aur dabte , dabte hi ek din  apna sayyam khone lagte h.aurjab insaan tootha h  toh uske saath,saath saara parivaar  bhi tootne aur bhikharne lagta h. ussi waqt woh ek dusre ko sambhaale toh  is duniya mai koi bhi ho unake parivaar  ko alaag nahi kar sakta . parivaar ka matlab sirf  “sukh mai nahi;dukh main bhi saath dena h.”woh kehte na,”a family which eats together stays together”.Par aaj kal generation gap hone ki wajah se aur swarth ki wajah se parivaar bhikar rahe h , kyuki koi bhi ek dusre ko samajhna nahi chahta . real parivaar ka kya matlab h ?sabhi ke liye ek hi rule follow karna, ye nahi? ki rules  sirf chote hi follow kare ya betiyon ke liye alag rules aur bahu jo dusre ghar se aai h uske liye koi aur rules. aur yahi baat bahuyo pe laggo hoti h, jab galti karne par maa- baap daat te h to kyu nahi bura maanti par agar saas-sasur ne kuch bol diya to kyu buraa maan letee ! agar hum apna ego ko chodkar parivaar  mai ho rahe mat-bedh ko baithkar ek saat sulajhae ek dusre ki baat achche se sune aur samajne ki koshish kare aur hamare bujarg waqt ke saat chale toh kyu koi bhi parivaar tootega .ek mukama parivaar ko  bhut saare log shuru karte h. par hamare ego, aur swarth ki wajah se sirf kuch hi reh jaate h.
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